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Abbie answers a listener question about the challenges of dating and relationships amidst diet culture -- especially while navigating a history of body control, body shame, and disordered eating. Our listener's concerns are about dating men who are overly focused on fitness and diet, and how to know whether those concerns are a reflection of her gut instincts, or a sign that more healing needs to happen.
What you'll hear:
The importance of safety and self-worth in relationships
How we can learn to trust our intuition in dating
Exploring shared values beyond diet culture
Ways to set both internal and external boundaries
Knowing when to share your mental health history
Working through dating app parameters
What is a trigger versus what is something to work through
Abbie's experience with ED recovery and dating
Jeb, Abbie's husband, joins later in the episode to have a conversation about the way they met:
What happened when they shared about eating disorders and addiction
Vulnerability and when to talk about hard things
Jeb shares his initial anxiety about dating post-treatment
What it was like meeting on a dating app
Why Jeb needed to find someone open to discussing hard topics
This is an episode that ultimately centers on the nuances of vulnerability and openness, what it means to prioritize our mental health without sacrificing important relationships, and getting clear on what we truly value in a partner.
This is an episode that ultimately centers on the nuances of vulnerability and openness, what it means to prioritize our mental health without sacrificing important relationships, and getting clear on what we truly value in a partner.
LISTEN TO THE FULL CONVERSATION HERE!
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Podcast Editing by Brian Walters
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